Thomas and I go way back. We worked together at the Children’s Defense Fund in Washington, DC in 2008. We both started as interns and got hired after a few months— Thomas in Communications and me in Policy. During our time in DC we became great friends. His friendship and influence is something that I have always treasured. After CDF, Thomas worked for Teach for America in the Mississippi Delta for several years and then went to law school. It had been a few years since we were in touch so when Thomas emailed me to tell me he was engaged to his high school sweetheart, Lauren (who is also a badass educator and administrator herself) I was beyond excited! To top it off, they had decided to bring all of their loved ones to Chicago to celebrate their union. Thomas and Lauren had been a thing since they were like 14 so it was a much anticipated and exciting event for everyone.
One thing Joey and I loved so much about Thomas and Lauren’s wedding is how much the day was about their people just as much as it was about the two of them getting married. From the first night of the rehearsal dinner it was evident how loved this couple is and how much they loved their friends and family. It was so special to witness.
There were so many highlights from this day, but I want to share a few things that stood out to me. During the reception, Thomas gave a toast and mentioned that his 85 year old grandmother was there that night. He talked about how during her time it would have been illegal for him to marry Lauren. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room when he spoke. He talked about progress and how grateful he is for the people who came before him who fought for him and Lauren to have the right to be married.
Another favorite highlight is just a fun one. I have literally never seen such an awesome garter toss. Thomas and his groomsmen did a full on lip sync and dance for their ladies and it was hilarious! My favorite part was probably everyone on the sidelines cheering them on.
All in all, this weekend was perfect and full of so much love and celebration. I am grateful that Joey and I had the opportunity to capture this special day for Thomas and Lauren and their loved ones.
Vendor List:
Wedding Planner: Storybook Weddings and Events
Beauty: Blush and Burgundy
Cinema: Bon Photage
Entertainment: First in Flight Entertainment, DJ Akib
Floral: The Flower Firm
Rentals: BBJ Linen
Stationary: LBrown Design and Paperie
Transportation: Windy City Trolley
Venue and Catering: Loews Chicago
